8 Prisons:
1. Mother's Belly
2. Father's Control
3. Parents' Household
4. School System
5. Birth Country Beliefs
6. Birth Religion Beliefs
7. Patriarchy
8. Linear Life Plan
In Westernized Modern Culture, we are born in a series of eight bubbles that are woven into the layers of our Boxes. Getting out of each of those bubbles happens through initiatory processes.
The first and foremost initiatory process is taking responsibility for being in those bubbles in the first place. It might seem shocking to you if you are reading this website that we assume that you are still in your mother’s belly or in your parents' bubble or in school even if you have left your parents’ home or school decades ago. Please read the symptoms of being in each of those bubbles with attention multiple times. The first time, your Box and Gremlin will probably deny, and attack by telling you that this does not apply to you or this book is stupid anyway.
Disidentification with the mind (i.e. the Box) and the body are the two first initiatory processes that you have to go through to have enough freedom of movement from your psychology to do transformational and evolutionary work, like building a next culture gameworld. If you still believe that you are your thoughts or your body, then there is very little that this book can do for you.
We are human beings, we are not perfect. The StartOver.xyz websites are not about perfectly making it, about perfectly being disidentified. They are an offer to walk the path of evolution despite and in spite of the obstacles it presents.
From experience, it is essential to create a Team of pathwalkers that will walk along with you on the path of evolution. We need each other for feedback, coaching, support, and connection.
Exploring The 8 Prisons To Be More Alive
With Gabriela Fagundes, Possibility Coach, Rage Club and Fear Club Spaceholder, and Radical Freedom Researcher.
Escaping the 8 Prisons: A Path of Transformational Adventure
Clinton Callahan, originator of Possibility Management and author of Conscious Feelings, No Reason, and Building Love That Lasts, visits The Stoa to discuss the '8 Prisons' for us to escape.
1. Mother's Belly
If you are still in your mother's belly, your gestures originate from your child ego state, from a needy and adaptive victim state that is complaining that the world is not devoted to making you happy. You cannot be out in the world standing on your own two feet.
Symptoms:
- If you think it is okay to take things from somebody - especially your parents - without asking, you are still in your mom's belly.
This is what the baby does to their mom, give me food, attention, nurturing, care, etc...
- If you let other people take your stuff without them asking you, you are still in your mom's belly.
Stuff includes time, attention, money, belongings, nurturing, food of someone's plate and drinks from someone else's glass and sexual energy.
- If you expect people to notice your state without you having to tell them, you are still in your mom's belly.
- If you expect people to take care of you without you having to ask them, you are still in your mom's belly.
- If you only feel comfortable or safe when you are inside of somebody else's bubble (like a baby inside of their mom's belly), you are still in your mom's belly.
- If you only feel that you are with somebody (feeling seen or meet), if you have physical contact with them (touching, hugging, cuddling, ...), you are still in your mother's belly.
2. Father's Control
3. Parents' Household
Symptoms:
- If you are still projecting your mom or dad on authority figures or your partner, you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still copying your mom or dad's patterns in relationship with others, you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still expecting your partner to fill the hole that your parents never filled, you are still in your parents' bubble (and projecting your parents onto your partner).
- If you are still giving your center away to authority figures, you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still not showing up, playing small and blaming your upbringing and your parents for this, you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still dedicating your life to prove that your parents where bad parents, you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still not having a non-conflictual relationship with your parents, you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still trying to change your parents (eg: giving them personal development books, trying to talk them into going to a workshop, talking about a workshop with them, etc...), you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still waiting for your parents to call you and tell you that they love you the way you are and totally accept you and think that you are the greatest person on Earth, you are still in your parents' bubble.
- If you are still using your parents' values and belief systems (values go from going to church every Sunday, going to school to have a good job, through setting the table the way they set it or addressing the waitress the way they did it)
- If you are having conversations in your head with your parents, you are still in your parents' bubble
4. School System
Modern culture school teaches us that making mistakes is bad. Because if we make a mistake we might learn something that they don't know. Of course, modern culture school is NOT giving us the education we need to overthrow them. They are giving us a Zombie, submissive slave, stay-dead-and-you-will-live type of education.
You will not be able to deliver something valuable for another human being if you are stuck in school culture because you can not try anything, you can not do anything that has never been done before, you are not allowed to make mistakes, look ridiculous, or look fabulous. Your five bodies are not free to move in any direction from any space to any other space.
5. Birth Country Beliefs
A culture has its own taboos, hidden assumptions, superstitions, prejudices, ... A culture has a specific way of manifesting patriarchy in its relationship to money, food, parents, children, women, and so on... The culture has a deep control over what a person can think and feel, over a person's expectations and assumptions.
If you are still identified with your own birth culture then you are not free to liberate the potential of people in that culture or another culture in ways that they become bigger then the culture allows.
7. Patriarchy
PATRIARCHY AND THE ROAD AHEAD
Patriarchy is not limited to men. Patriarchy is not only the control of women by men. And it is not limited to a slave system that enslaves both men and women in a Win-Lose domination game that benefits only 1% of the psychopaths on planet Earth.
Patriarchy is a non-sustainable culture that has been deeply integrated into our foundational structure for thousands of years. The memes of patriarchy have been passed down one generation to another for 6000 years. That is around 240 generations! Getting out of patriarchy requires that day-by-day, moment-to-moment, you put your attention on your attention and notice your intention, your purpose, which part of you is making decisions, and which part of you is observing the decision-making process.
To step outside of patriarchal thought means: Being skeptical toward every known system of thought; being critical of all assumptions, ordering values and definitions. It means testing each statement by trusting your own experience. Since such experience has usually been trivialized or ignored, it means overcoming the deep-seated resistance within ourselves toward accepting ourselves and our knowledge as valid. It means getting rid of the 'great men' in our heads and substituting for them ourselves. It means being critical toward our own thought, which is, after all, thought trained in the patriarchal tradition. Finally, it means developing intellectual courage, the courage to stand alone, the courage to reach farther than our grasp, the courage to risk failure. Perhaps the greatest challenge to escaping the patriarchy is the challenge to move from the desire for safety and approval to the most daring quality of all—that of intellectual arrogance, the supreme hubris which asserts to itself the right to reorder the world. The hubris of the god-makers, the hubris of the male system-builders. It means to take radical responsibility for building the gameworlds you want to live and work within rather than adopting gameworld designs for money, housing, food, transportation, health, communications, spirituality, governance, etc. from the patriarchy.
The system of patriarchy is a historic construct; it has a beginning; it will have an end. Its time seems to have nearly run its course—it no longer serves the needs of men or women and in its inextricable linkage to militarism, hierarchy, and racism it threatens the very existence of life on earth.
What will come after patriarchy? What kind of structure will be the foundation for alternate forms of social organization? We are at the moment of designing, creating, and moving into these. We are living in an age of unprecedented transformation. We are in the process of becoming. We already know that unfettering both female and male minds from patriarchal thoughtware after so many millennia will provide vision, ordering, solutions and unprecedented possibilities... Even Atlantis and Lemuria were patriarchal and hierarchical.
Women at long last are demanding, as men did in the Renaissance, the right to explain, the right to define. Women, thinking themselves out of patriarchy, add transforming insights to the process of redefinition.
As long as both men and women regard the subordination of half the human race to the other, and subordination of both men and women to uninspected social constructs as 'natural,' it is impossible to envision a society in which differences do not connote either dominance or subordination. The archiarchal critique of the patriarchal edifice of knowledge is laying the groundwork for a transformed analysis of reality, one which at the very least can distinguish the whole from a part. Women’s History, the essential tool in creating feminist consciousness in women, is providing the body of experience against which new theory can be tested and the ground on which women of vision can stand. The women's liberation movement began in the 1960's. Men are just beginning to wake up. Together we can escape the patriarchy and invent next culture.
Patriarchy is a complex and integral culture rooted in ownership. Patriarchy started when the first man put up fences around a piece of Earth and said: "This piece of land is mine!". The patriarchal culture unfolded from then on. Competition between men then began. Competition and ownership extended beyond land, to wealthy possession, women, children, trees, air, water, animals, human rights, etc.. Men started separating, comparing, judging, criticizing, deciding what is good, what is bad, what is worth life, what is not, who is better, faster, stronger, who should be praised, who should be shamed, ... To hold all of this together, churches, corporations, governments were created. Money, power, and control are the principal values of patriarchy.
The memes of patriarchy are various, numerous, subtle and destructive. They are integrated in your Box and Gremlin as survival strategies.
8. Linear Life Plan
Have you ever heard of the Linear Life Plan?
It goes something like this:
You get born.
You go to school.
You go to another school.
You get a job.
You get a new job.
You get married.
You buy a car and a house.
You have kids.
You start your own business.
You get your kids through school (so they can start in the Linear Life Plan...).
You sell your business.
You retire.
You write your memoirs.
You go to an old people's home.
You die.
Then maybe you go to Heaven, Jannah, Valhalla, Nirvana, or to the front of the line at the great Post Office in the sky.
Did you ever meet anyone who believed in this Linear Life Plan?
How To Escape From The 8 Prisons
one after the other...
You are born into a series of prisons.
Escaping from each prison starts through taking Radical Responsibility for being in each prison in the first place.
HINT: As shocking as this might feel, ASSUME THAT YOU ARE STILL IN ALL EIGHT PRISONS...
...because it is probably true.
1. Get out of your Mother's Belly: Take Radical Responsibility For Choosing To Live And Get Fully Incarnated
Practice & Healing processes:
- Leave your mother's home
- Do a Birth Process, saying Yes to choosing to have been born of Earth and taking full responsibility for making that decision
- Heal Emotional Old Decisions made in the mother's belly
- Stop thinking it is okay to take things or have things taken from you without permission
- Learn the difference between collaboration (adult) and symbiosis (mom and baby)
- Stop assuming that people sense your state and start learning to share your sensations, feelings and emotions from an adult ego state (adult level responsibility)
2. Grow Up - Get out of your Parents' Bubble
Healing processes: There is a straight forward procedure to get our of your parents' bubble. It requires:
- Leaving your parents' home
- Completing incomplete communications
- Taking your center back from your father (for women) / your balls back from your mother (for men)
- Healing childhood traumas
- Cleaning out your personal bubble of space from your parents' energy
- Finding one thing that you can admire about your parents
The ultimate test to know if you are out of your parents' bubble is if you can visit them and not be hooked.
Experiments:
- Get yourself a stopwatch (every smartphone has one). Plan to visit your parents. When you are standing in front of their door, get your stopwatch out. Ring the bell. When the door opens, start the stopwatch. Stop the stopwatch the moment you are hooked by one of your parents. If you can make it more than 5 seconds the first time, you are definitely walking the path of getting out of your parents' bubble. Often we are hooked even before ringing the bell, for example, if you are having rehearse conversations with them in your head before you get to the door.
3. Quit School - Get Out of School
It is totally necessary that you regain freedom as a Trainer whether you hold possibility teams, workshops, rage clubs, feelings days or ETB and Possibility Labs... and also to be alive as a human being.
So GET YOURSELF OUT OF SCHOOL! Okay, how? Aaaaahh, now we are starting to have an interesting conversation.
A group of Trainers have created a "Quit School Training", it was expected to last one session, and then there was too much stuff, it was extended to one day, and there was still so much stuff that this can be a three-to-five day training. Gather with next-generation trainers, friends, possibility managers and a team of possibility management trainers who can deliver this training, find a date and place and organize the training. You will come out of this training liquid as a jellyfish. And six months later, everyone will be blinded by your shininess as a human being.
Getting out of school requires healing trauma with teachers, professors, coaches that held an authority position over you during your childhood, upgrading your thoughtware about making mistakes, looking bad and not knowing.
Go check out the website quitschool.org.
EXPERIMENTS/MOVIES/BOOKS/WEBSITES
WEBSITE - Quit School (Matrix Code: QUITSCHO.00)
MOVIE - Schooling the World - The White Man's Last Burden by Carol Black (Matrix Code: MOVIE270.00)
MOVIE - Accepted
4. Quit Patriarchy - Get out of the patriarchal capitalistic empire
As a Trainer and shift agent to next culture of Archiarchy, you become a bridge to a culture based on the values on Love, Radical Responsibility, Consciousness, Kindness, Communication, Initiation, Empowerment, Change, Transformation, Evolution, Humbleness, Clarity, Creative Collaboration, Care, and much more.
You serve the values of the culture you play in. If you are still unconsciously enacting patriarchy, you are serving the values of that gameworld in both your training spaces and your personal spaces. Which gameworld do you want to play in?
If you are committed to getting out of patriarchy, here are some experiments to try:
1. Read Anne-Chloe Destremau's article.
2. Compare your belief system to the one of patriarchy over 10 points:
i. Children
ii. Women
iii. School
iv. Possession of land or property
v. Money
vi. Your Destiny
vii. Status
viii. Sex.
ix. Regarding treating the Earth as if it were a business in liquidation.
x. Spirituality
3. Get together with 2 or 3 dangerous, radically honest friends and ask them in what ways you are lying to yourself about step 2.
4. Break a rule in private. Look inside of yourself what happens.
5. Break a rule in public. Look outside of yourself what happens. (Do not get arrested.)
6. Study the effectiveness of trying to change patriarchy into something else, e.g: Marching with signs, voting, Occupy movement.
7. Get together with 2 or 3 dangerous, radically honest friends and figure out 5 alternative strategies.
Hint 1. Richard Buckminster Fuller suggests that you can't change things by fighting the existing gameworld, the way to change things is to create a new gameworld that makes the existing one irrelevant.
Hint 2. Spark 74: You live in patriarchy. You have the power to make the patriarchy irrelevant.
8. Create and execute a 3-day transformational environment in which you fight for your life to get out of the patriarchy. Hint: Not too much blood.
9. Celebrate your victory by never conforming to the patriarchal gameworld ever gain.
10. Provide the environment in the whole process for other people as fast as you can. We are running out of time.
Some hints that you are pulling yourself out of patriarchy:
- you are out of money survival
- you have regained your own authority
- you are not giving your center away to authority figures (churches, corporations, advertisements, governments, schools...)
- you have reclaimed your creative power.
EXPERIMENTS/MOVIES/BOOKS/WEBSITES
SPARK 74 - You live in patriarchy. You have the power to make the patriarchy irrelevant. (Matrix Code for reading the SPARK: SPARK074.00)
MOVIE - Thelma & Louise (Matrix Code: MOVIE187.00)
5. Go Global - Get Out of Your Birth Culture and Religion
Live in and appreciate several different cultures to realize cultural relativity at its source. Cultural relativity is the capacity to distinguish between what is cultural and what is real.
EXPERIMENTS/MOVIES/BOOKS
BOOK - Ishmael by Daniel Quinn. (Matrix code: BOOK0129.00). An adventure for the mind and the spirit. Daniel Quinn said, "Something better than civilization is waiting for us." He knows what he is talking about.
MOVIE - The Last Samurai with Tom Cruise. (Matrix code: MOVIE228.00)
WEBSITE - Culture to Culture Conversation. (Matrix code: CULTOCUL.00)
WEBSITE - Go Travel Now (Matrix Code: GOTRANOW.00)
6. Escape The Linear Life Plan - Shift out of having a predictable life
There is an entirely other Life Plan available directly from Gaia, ECCO (Earth Coincidence Control Center), your Pearl, your Bright Principles, your Archetypal Lineage. It is organic, irrational, unpredictable, nonlinear, refuses to fit into anybody else's concept or plan, and it is surprisingly delightful to live, far more interesting than anything a mere human could think up by themselves.
How do you get into it? How do you shift from the Linear Life Plan to the Nonlinear Life Plan? The answer is simple but not easy. Radical Reliance on the force of Conscious Evolution.
How can you achieve Radical Reliance on the force of Conscious Evolution? Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes. All of them.
Of course, no one can do all of them... (the idea was meant to dismay you just a little at the sheer immensity of the task...) but you can understand that there is no top end, that the end result cannot be achieved, that you are ongoingly a beginner, even after you are a certified Possibility Trainer.
And... you can keep engaging the process. When you are in the flow of Evolution, between solid positions of thinking that you know who you are and what you are doing here... that is when the Universe can nudge you sideways into inconceivable coincidences, remarkable meetings of chance, unpredictable encounters, and nonlinear opportunities standing directly before you, never imagined before. When you are able to see these opportunities, when you are able to say a simple, "Yes," and accept the offers the Universe makes to you and take immediate action, stepping fully into them without hesitating or looking backwards, you become the Universe in action, the space through which your Bright Principles and your Archetypal Lineage can do their work in the world.
Yes, it is possible.
I would suggest to you that Gaia is begging you to come out and play full on. I would also suggest to you that the Nonlinear Life Plan is the biggest 5-body ecstatic experience and cannot come to an end.
EXPERIMENTS/MOVIES/BOOKS
BOOK - Star Maker by Olaf Stapledon. (Matrix code: BOOK0151.00)
BOOK - Mount Analogue by René Daumal. (Matrix code: BOOK0138.00)
Linear vs. Nonlinear Life Plan
Living a linear life plan includes separating work (what you have to do), play (what you want to do), and service (what you are supposed to do). You are mostly involved in work, so you can pay for your play that is only during the weekends and two or three weeks holiday per year and you have no idea what your service is even if every cell in your body is begging you to do what you are supposed to do.
The nonlinear life plan involves that what you have to do, what you want to do and what you are supposed to do is one and the same thing! Your work is your playground and your service. Your playground is your work and your service. Your service is your work and your playground. In a nonlinear life plan, your work is your learning and your transformational space. In those spaces, you fly. Where you fly, you play. Where you fly, you have the freedom of movement to be a servant of your Bright Principles and Archetypal lineage.
Result: Take the stand for the stand that you take
Radical Responsibility
Radical responsibility for Possibility Manager.
The home of Possibility Manager is radical responsibility. When exiting each bubble one after another, you take radical responsibility. Look around you and notice where you are not taking responsibility and still playing victim (your parents are still giving you money, you are working a job you do not like, you are blaming others for what is not working in your life, you are jealous of other people's successes, ...). Start taking responsibility for all those things.
When you will start taking radical responsibility for your destiny, you will notice that you are the space through which your Bright Principles and your Archetypal Lineage moves you through space and time. If you are still attached to what your Ego wants, your Box or your Gremlin, your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage won't be able to do the work through you.
Take the stand for the stand that you take.
Being radically responsible is being responsible for the level of responsibility that you take. You are the stand for the stand that you take. You do not only take a stand for radical responsibility but you ARE the stand for the stand of being radically responsible. You take responsibility for your underworld and unconscious behaviors too. That means you feel the pain of not feeling the pain for what you are unconscious of.
Taking radical responsibility for your own power.
Standing in radical responsibility, you have the ability to create archetypal relationship and archetypal spaces for the benefit of all Beings everywhere. Those archetypal spaces allow your Bright principles to work for other people.
Taking back your authority.
In the context of radical responsibility, there is no one to ask permission to do anything. No one can tell you what you can or cannot do - except maybe the Universe and then still it's up to you to accept the offer or not. Stop waiting around for someone to give you permission to live your destiny.
When you think the status quo nails you to the floor and that what you want to try is obviously not permitted, when no one else sees the importance or value of what inspires you, when the general opinion is that it is too risky, when everyone else is too busy or too distracted or too exhausted to step beyond their self-imposed limitations to help you make it happen, go ahead and do it anyway. If it does not work, you won't lose any friends. But... if it does work, it will be legend making!
EXPERIMENTS/MOVIES/TALKS
VIDEO - Werner Erhard - Taking a Stand for the Future 1982, click here. (Matrix Code: YOUTUBEx.33)
MOVIE - Wonder Woman with Gal Gadot. (Matrix code: MOVIE198.00) I have watched this movie a number of times, each time I notice a new stand Wonder Woman takes for the world and humanity. Wonder Woman is an Archetypal Warrioress being put on this Earth to save humanity.
Experiments
ESCAPE YOUR MOTHER'S BELLY: GET RID OF YOUR MOMMA'S CLOTHES.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.01
Go through your clothes and put in a pile all the clothes that your mother has bought for you, that you still have. Or clothes that your mother used to buy your underwear at Target, and you continued to to buy at Target. Stop buying the same brand of clothes that you mother was buying.
Even if you like it, stop for 3 months. You might still be using Cheez Whiz. Stop it.
Throw them away. Promise that you will never buy the clothes that your mother used to buy.
Do this with everything. Furniture.
Don't duplicate your mother's recipes.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.01 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR MOTHER'S BELLY:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.02
Call up your mother on the phone, telling her that it's great to talk to her, but that you're not talking to her for 6 months, you're not going there for Christmas, no conversation, no justification, polite, sweet and terminal. I love you, bye.
After 6 months, enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.02 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR MOTHER'S BELLY:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.03
Call up a Possibility Coach and ask for an Emotional Healing Process to find out
1) what's real,
2)connect with the part of you that they cannot find, speak to the part of you that they cannot sense
3) bring you into an entirely new decision to incarnate.
Commit to your life.
I decide to live.
I decide to be born.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.03 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR MOTHER'S BELLY: STOP TREATING OTHER PEOPLE LIKE YOUR MOTHER.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.04
For the next month, notice when you start to take things without asking.
When you catch yourself, tell the person / entity "you are not my mother and I am not your child".
Have a do-over.
Look for things that you expect to be given to you.
Kill your expectations by going back to the assumptions behind your expectations, the unconscious beliefs behind your assumptions.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.04 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR MOTHER'S BELLY: STOP MOTHERING.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.05
Stop mothering others.
Block people from coming into your space who come as if you are going to take care of them in some way. Write an article about this inner-work of doing this experiment, and publish the article.
When you have published this article, enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.05 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR MOTHER'S BELLY: STOP BEING ADAPTIVE TO YOUR MOTHER.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.06
Discover the part of you that needs to please the mother. The part that needs to be good boy or good girl so that your mother loves you. Go through the emotional healing processes and the practice of notice how you arrange the house, how you go to the restaurant, etc.
How are you being adaptive?
In a Possibility Team, pair with someone who reminds you of your mother and for 20 minutes tell them all the ways that you adapt to your mother so that you can find the healing processes and go through them.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.06 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR MOTHER'S BELLY: MOTHER GRADUATION PARTY.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.07
Call up your mother, and read the Mother Graduation website together.
Ask her if she would do it. Tell her, I'm done calling you mother, I will call you by your name. I'm not sending you Mother's card day on Mother's Day.
If she says no, that's fine. You still do your side of it.
If she says yes, send her to Nicole Hartley Bradford - Mother Graduation Study Group Network, Awakening the Mothers. There's going to be 88 000 more people on these websites.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.07 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.08
In your Possibility Team, have a session about inquiring about how you're doing the job that you do and why did you study what you studied.
"what did you study"
"law"
"why?"
"why?"
"why?"
Keep going until you find something that's real. Why are you really doing the job that you're doing.
Also: Why do you have the spiritual practice that you have?
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.08 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.09
Read through the Authority website, and do a couple of experiments a week.
Go through your Possibility Team, and do a standing rage hold, facing your father. Ask everybody to tell you all the ways that you are:
speaking his language
not looking at him
packaging the communication so he gets it
seeking his approval
Do 20 minutes standing rage. Don't assume you're going to have a conclusion from this. This is a crack process. Do rage work, standing rage and go for it as big as clearly as you can.
Don't try to make any new decisions.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.09 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.10
In your Beep! book write a list of the people, starting with you father, who have been father authorities in your life- teachers, coaches, professors, etc.
For a whole month practice interrupting, saying no, speaking out from your own authority in the company of these people.
During this experiment, notice when you make someone else your father. Even if there's a person walking towards you down the street. Hold your center, don't do around him, keep walking.
Speak out with any men around.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.10 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.11
In your Beep! Book write a letter to your father, that says:
What I actually wanted from you as a father is...
What I needed from you that i didn't get...
What I got from you that I did not need...
What I feel sad about..
What I feel angry about...
What I feel scared about is that I am going to be just like you.
Do not send this letter.
Go back through that letter, learn the skills that you did not get, the behaviours, to be able to do what he cannot do.
After you get the first three new skills form this experiment, you get your matrix points. Report your success to you 3cell or Possibility Team.
Enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.11 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON: MIRROR.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.12
This Mirror experiment has one version for men and one for women.
Women: for the next month, in any meeting that you are in, where there is at least one man, refuse, for the duration of the meeting to be in masculine context.
Masculine Context: Men speak first, women stays quiet, agree to what the men says.
Refuse to do any of that. Refuse to let the man pay the bill.
Men: for a month, when you're in a meeting where there's at least one woman, refuse to take over the context of the meeting. Shut up. Let the women run the meeting. Let yourself be in the meeting and participate in a women-contexted meeting.
After one month of these kinds of meetings, gatherings, enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.12 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON: TRANSFORMING AUTHORITY.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.13
Every time you're in an appointment with someone that's male, refuse to bow down to their authority. You can do this by having a meta-conversation: "I have this internal pressure to be nice to you, to not say things that you don't understand, I have this pressure to be adaptive like that because it's a leftover habit from my dad, so fuck this, I'm not going to give my authority away to you, I'm speaking in a context that you might not understand, and we will figure it out!"
You will fail at this the first few times you try.
The first time you will be free in it, it will be ecstatic.
The first time you succeed, report it to your team. Write an archetypal poem about the glory of winning a battle, this battle of getting your authority back. An epic poem.
Then enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.13 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON: BREAK THE RULES.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.14
There's behaviours that your father would or would not do. Maybe he goes hunting, always tips more than %2, drives a Ford, meditates, whatever the rule is.
For this experiment, you break the rules.
Whatever he has to do or cannot do, write down 10 rules, and break them for a month. You don't have to tell anybody about this. if they have any questions, tell them you are doing a psycho-emotional-tranformational-experiment. After you break all ten of the rules that you choose, collect your matrix points by entering Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.14 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR FATHER'S PRISON: TAKE BACK YOUR CENTER.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.15
In your next Lab, request to go through the process of taking back your center from your father.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE: PAY YOUR DEBTS AND TAKE YOUR LOANS BACK.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.16
Make a list of any debts that you have to your parents, the borrowed items, every single one of them, and pay back every bit of money.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE: FAMILY HOLIDAYS AND TRADITIONS.
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.17
Make a list in your Beep! Book of all the traditions of your family. Traditions for the holidays, vacation places, who organizes them. How does Christmas, Hanukah, Ramadan, go, the food, birthday parties, which cake recipes. Write the details.
For a year, don't do any of them. The first time I missed Christmas I went to Prague. It was the first time I did not do anything for Christmas at all. It was just great. It was fabulous. I had so much energy.
After a year, enter Matrix Code: 8PRISONS.17 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.18
Write down a long list of all the obligations that your family puts on you: such as I have to answer their texts, I have to call my grandmother every Sunday, I have to pretend Uncle Joe isn't an alcoholic. Everything you've found out. Find a big backpack and a couple carrier bags. Go to a river bed or another rocky wild place, and pick up a stone for each of the the things on the list. Put them in your backpack, hike up the closest hill with the rocks in your backpack and leave them there or throw them back into the river.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE: PREJUDICES
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.19
Make a list of the prejudices from your parents, sisters, brothers, father, against people, political parties, corporations, brands, people from different countries, races, classes, male female prejudices. Write them all down. Do this in groups of 3 at a Possibility Team. You can't really see them yourself. 2 person twist the arm of the other. 20 minutes each.
Prejudices are subtle. Against homosexuals, politically correct stuff. Science, religion, COVID prejudices. Your job is to break every single one of them. Make an experiment where you actually do something, spend money, write, etc. travel through the slums of Brazil, do the things. Go to China Town and eat the food, go beg for meals, buy your clothes at a second hand store, go naked down the street. Buy a whole suit and go to a fancy restaurant. Rent a toxedo and drive up in a limousine. Get an article about yourself published in the newspaper.
Break the prejudice is inspired, it has to die so it has to expire. Projudices.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.20
Move every single thing that you own and that your parents own about you, move these things out of their house. Prom dress. Old desk. Your baby teeth in a jar. Ask them, say you need it all. Take it all out. For the rest of your life, never again use your parent's home as a storage facility.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE: CHANGE YOUR HOME ADDRESS
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.21
Stop using your parent's home as a home address. Use the Janitor or somebody else.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.22
Family constellation, one each for the two sides.
Clean it up, there's all this tangled energetic bullshit. All this horror to be passed down from your parents. Tell the family constellation facilitator, get all this cleaned up from your parents. You'll learn that your parents are not in front of you. Their problems are not your problems. They are behind you. Put your parents behind you, they are your ancestors. That's why you don't put them in your will and testament.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE:
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.23
Write your last will and testament. Make sure nothing goes to your parents.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE: STOP TRYING TO CHANGE YOUR PARENTS
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.24
If you are reading this experiment, you are probably on a path of evolution. Your parents might not be on this path, that is not your problem. Do not invite them, do not send them any book, don't try to let them know what you're doing. That game is over. Stop.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE: DISCONNECT FROM YOUR PARENTS' MEDIA CHANNELS AND HOBBIES
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.25
Whatever hobbies your parents have, disconnect. Bitcoins, golfing. If they watch or listen to certain news channels, if they watch tv shows, whatever media channel they are using, cut off. Go cold turkey for three months and decide to use media channels of your own. It takes three months to clean out the residue. Report to your Possibility Team and collect your matrix points after three months.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE YOUR PARENTS' BUBBLE: ARE MY PARENTS' FRIENDS MY FRIENDS?
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.26
In your Beep! Book list your parent's friends, be they relatives, neighbours, old schoolmates, or work related friends, and do not talk with them for a year.
Purpose: find out who YOUR true friends are.
If they ask about it, tell them honestly what you are doing, becoming authentic with your friends, becoming real with yourself about your friends.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE FROM SCHOOL: QUIT SCHOOL
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.27
With your Possibility Team, read out loud together and watch all the videos from the Quit School website.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE FROM SCHOOL: QUIT SCHOOL BOOK STUDY
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.28
Choose two of the recommended books from the Quit School list, make a study group. Make experiments, invent them if there are none.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE FROM SCHOOL: BURY YOUR SCHOOL PAIN
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.29
Go to your old school, elementary or high school, when it's closed.
Walk around inside and remember the pain of it.
Remember the loneliness, the arrogance, the enemies, the entire misfit thing.
Write those things down and fold them up into a package, in brown paper.
Take it out to the forest, and read it out loud to the forest. Then wrap it up in brown paper and twine. Bury it at least 30 cm down into the ground.
Do not mark the place. Let it decompose and become fertilizer.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE FROM SCHOOL: HEAL FEAR OF FAILURE
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.30
In your Possibility Team, do a month-long or 3 months long experiment where you extract yourself from your prison of school and you do all these experiments together.
We've learned to self doubt our way to go about life, about how we want to live life. We've learned constant fear of not being good enough.
This experiment is to reclaim your self-trust about how you want to live your life. Fear of failing. Of not doing it right.
In groups of 3, 10-15 mins where one person gets to share what really happened to them in school. Fear of authority fear of failure lives ongoingly with them. Shift into the negotiating for what you want.
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This Experiment is worth x Matrix Points.ESCAPE FROM SCHOOL: YOUR ALTAR TO KNOWING
Matrix Code 8PRISONS.31
Go through your entire house, including attic, basement, garage, closets, storage areas, and pull out all of the books that are there. Look at each one and ask the question: do I have this book because 'I want to but don't...' or 'I think I should...' know what is in this book. I carry around this book because it is a burden given to me by the idea that I should have this knowing. These books are your unconscious altar to the construct and value of knowing. Consider that idea that trying to manage your knowing limits you from relating and being in the flow of the great evolutionary processes of the Universe. Knowing is dead and isolated. Evolutionary Processes are alive and connected in. Keep the books you will read this year. Give all your other books to an organization such as Oxfam.
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